In the 21st Century American families are complex.  There are traditional families, blended families, and a variety of creative families with adopted children. Many women are single mothers who struggle to raise children without financial support.  The changes in the American family have led to a blurring of defined roles.

Is it possible that as the family unit has gone through a major transition there has been a breakdown in personal growth and self-actualization?  Is it possible, even probably, that we are creating disenfranchised children who feel alienated from this world? Is it possible that the epidemic of drug use and school shootings is a by product of these changes in our family and community structure?

We need to understand why children, teen-agers and young adults are turning to drugs, school shootings, and suicide.  I assume research is underway.  Meanwhile, what is a parent to do?

My suggestions will appear in a series of brief articles.  Parents need help now, not 20 years from now.